Sunday, February 26, 2012

Stop Abortion

I would like to share something from my true life experience and if that is going to transform anybody, then i would be grateful...
On my seventh month of first pregnancy, I was affected with Rubella [German measles] and my gynecologist, suggested for an immediate termination of my pregnancy on my seventh month!!! I was really shocked hearing the news...
I was longing to see my first child and I couldn’t accept what she said. So I went in search of other doctors, I went to most of the Gynecologist in person and via friends, to get one positive reply... But I couldn’t hear any... Everyone suggested termination...
Everybody said that if I'm to continue my pregnancy, it is all up to you, it is really RISK. Or else something a MIRACLE should happen.... as there is possibility that the child may be born with either one or all of the disabilities like deaf or blind or mentally retarded or with heart diseases... And it is not possible to confirm that before birth as, these symptoms cannot be known via scanning.
I did research from my end, via newspapers and goggling and I accepted the fact that had happened to me. Later I ended with all my searches and went to my gynecologist and said that I'm really in need of my child, I can't leave her at any cost.. So I'm going to continue and I need your full support...
She was really angry with me saying that if anything happens, she won't be responsible... But I assured her that I'm going to face this... I will surely accept my child in any manner; she/he is given to me by my GOD.
Later she and the whole nursing home (St, Anne's Nursing Home, Pettah, Trivandrum) did give me their prayers... My friends and family was with me... I did pray to GOD, not that to give me my child in perfect condition but "To give me courage to face anything that is going to happen and strength to look after my child in any manner that she/he is given to me”
This situation really dragged me near to GOD more and more and I got lot of courage and confidence, I was becoming more and more proud that I'm doing something that everybody had refused me to do, just for the sake of my little angel who is yet to come, whom I had never seen... I couldn’t really explain what went over my mind those days...
But I did try to forget all these and concentrated on how to welcome my angel into my life and started preparing for that. My parents were really tensed bcoz of my preparations and they thought I'm getting MAD bcoz of these situations... :)
At last By God’s Grace I got my little angel - Annakutty, safe in my hand on 27-Sep-2009. It was really a festival for me & my family.
Nowadays, I could hear news of more and more of abortions... and I Just wanted to share what went over me...
How could we terminate our child, just for the sake of our well-being...; just for something that they are not even responsible...?
How can we deny their right to life? Who are we to decide on their right to live on this world?
We are brainy equipment’s of GOD to make fine living possible in this world, what if we refuse to do our job...
What if every MOTHER starts thinking of dropping their pregnancy...
If I was to terminate my pregnancy, then there was nothing for me to tense over, I would be relaxed, and I could just say that I just terminated, since I was asked to; And I was away from risk.. But then, will I be getting such a cute little angel to love me...?
Now my Annakutty is 2yrs of OLD and is completely alright, without any disabilities...
We Mothers love our child in any condition they are and accept them in any condition, any mistakes - during their growth and even when they are grown up; then why couldn’t we do that for the most innocent babies who are yet to come to this world?
This Is Dedicated To The Memory Of All The Aborted Babies Throughout The World. Please think over what happens to a child and all the pain a baby goes through when they are aborted & how cruel a Mother should be to do this...